An Emewe-Opada-born celebrated author, Mr Innocent Ugbeda Agbawn, has been commended for his diligence, commitment and perseverance in his writing career.
Mr Oyigu Elijah gave the commendation in Abuja on Saturday while reviewing Agbawn’s book, When a No Is Necessary at the public presentation of the book.
He described the author as someone with a natural and organic flair for writing, noting that his literary strength had been evident since his secondary school days.
Oyigu praised Agbawn’s discipline and deliberate commitment to writing, particularly his ability to create time for personal reflection and solitude despite maintaining a demanding schedule.
He observed that writing requires not only talent but also discipline, sacrifice and the willingness to remain committed to one’s creative calling.
Speaking on the central message of the book, Oyigu said it offers an important lesson on the power of discernment and the need to understand that saying no is sometimes necessary for protecting what truly matters in life.
He explained that the book challenges the common perception that saying no amounts to pride, stubbornness or a lack of consideration for others. Rather, it teaches that setting boundaries is an expression of wisdom and self-awareness, particularly when such decisions are made with humility, kindness and respect.
According to him, the ability to decline certain demands does not necessarily mean rejecting people; it could mean protecting one’s values, priorities and commitments.
Oyigu further noted that the book provides valuable lessons on managing relationships, especially the difficulty of saying no to family members, friends and loved ones. He observed that genuine relationships should accommodate honest communication and healthy boundaries, adding that the desire to please everyone could sometimes undermine personal well-being and the quality of relationships.
He also highlighted the book’s emphasis on time management, purpose, work, business and self-discipline, describing these as critical areas where people must learn to exercise restraint and make deliberate choices. He noted that time, energy, resources and personal gifts are valuable responsibilities that must be managed wisely rather than distributed indiscriminately.
In his assessment, Oyigu said the book ultimately challenges readers to examine the consequences of their inability to say no, particularly when silence and excessive accommodation lead to frustration, misplaced priorities and the abandonment of personal purpose.
He described its central message as a call to intentional living, stressing that a wise no often protects a more important yes.
He commended Agbawn for presenting the subject in simple, direct and relatable language, supported by memorable illustrations and practical reflections that allow readers to connect the lessons to their everyday experiences. He added that the book’s Christian perspective gives its message additional moral and spiritual depth.
When a No Is Necessary takes readers through a progressive exploration of awareness, personal boundaries, relationships, practical decision-making and self-discipline, ultimately encouraging them to live more purposeful and intentional lives.
Mr Innocent Ugbeda Agbawn hails from Emewe-Opada in Dekina Local Government Area of Kogi State. Although he has authored several articles, When a No Is Necessary marks his debut in book publication.
