As young individuals, we often find ourselves in a state of constant becoming – working towards our goals, aspirations, and dreams. It’s a time of exploration, discovery, and growth. But in the midst of this journey, it’s easy to get caught up in the pressure to have it all figured out.
We compare ourselves to others, feeling like we’re not doing enough or achieving enough. We forget that our youth is a time for learning, for making mistakes, and for finding our own path.
Remember, your twenties (and even thirties) are not a destination, but a journey. It’s okay to not have everything together. It’s okay to stumble, to fall, and to rise again.
Don’t put too much pressure on yourself to be perfect. Instead, focus on progress, not perfection. Celebrate your small wins, and don’t be afraid to ask for help along the way.
Your youth is a time for growth, for experimentation, and for finding your voice. Don’t let societal expectations or comparisons dictate your journey. Stay true to yourself, and remember that it’s okay to take your time.
You are becoming the best version of yourself, and that’s something to be proud of. Keep pushing forward, even when it’s hard. Keep learning, growing, and embracing the journey.
– Asuku Sufyan Onimisi writes from Okene.