What shall it profit a man if he gains the whole world but loses his soul? This question from Mark 8:36 rings loudly today in a world where men are celebrated for their wealth, fame, and power, yet silently battle inner wounds that no amount of success can heal. Many men wear crowns of victory outside but carry heavy chains inside—wounds they have never faced.
Too often, men seek validation in external achievements—cars, titles, followers, or relationships—while ignoring the pain that lingers beneath. The truth is that real victory begins within. No amount of applause or riches can fill the void left by unhealed hurts. And these hidden wounds don’t just harm the individual; they spill into homes, workplaces, and communities.
A Christian leader remind us that “deliverance must come before elevation.” Without confronting our inner struggles, any outward success becomes unstable. Many powerful men today have stumbled not because of lack of skill or opportunity, but because their personal battles were left unresolved, turning triumph into tragedy.
The wounds come in many forms—childhood neglect, betrayal, rejection, or silence—and yet men are often taught to suppress pain rather than seek healing. This culture creates a dangerous cycle: bleeding people bleed on others. Brokenness unaddressed leads to broken homes, broken communities, and broken leadership.
True strength is not in hiding tears or denying pain but in the courage to face oneself honestly. Healing is a spiritual journey requiring more than just willpower; it demands a return to accountability, prayer, and self-mastery. The strongest men are those who conquer their inner demons before trying to conquer the world.
Even Jesus wept and withdrew to deal with sorrow, reminding us that healing is not weakness. Nigeria, Africa, and the world need healed men—fathers, leaders, and brothers who have faced their pain and found wholeness. Without this, success is merely a ticking time bomb.
In the words of the Igala proverb, “The man who hides fire in his pocket will soon burn his own garment.” The call today is clear: heal your soul before your success becomes your downfall.
– Inah Boniface Ocholi writes from Ayah – Igalamela/Odolu LGA, Kogi state.
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