In a time when many families are struggling with rising costs and financial uncertainty, elementary school graduation ceremonies have become both a source of joy and a topic of concern.
While it is important to celebrate children’s achievements, we must also reflect on how we celebrate, especially in the face of economic hardship affecting parents, teachers, and communities.
Why Graduation Matters
Graduation ceremonies mark an important milestone in a child’s life. They:
Encourage children to be proud of their efforts.
Motivate them to keep learning.
Give parents and communities a sense of hope for the future.
But we must remember: celebration should not become a burden.
The Problem
Today, some elementary school graduations are becoming overly expensive, with:
Costly uniforms and multiple outfit changes.
Elaborate decorations and venue rentals.
Expensive fees for photos, chairs, and “send-forth” parties.
For many families, these costs are difficult to afford—especially in a country where inflation is rising, and food, fuel, and school materials are increasingly expensive.
A Call for Simplicity and Sensitivity
We are not saying graduation should be cancelled—but we must strike a balance between celebration and reality. Schools and parents should work together to:
Simplify ceremonies without reducing their meaning.
Reduce financial pressure on families.
Encourage donations or sponsorships instead of placing the full cost on parents.
Focus more on academic awards, performances, and speeches, not lavish spending.
Conclusion
A graduation ceremony should bring smiles, not stress. Let us remember that true success is not in how expensive the event is, but in the knowledge, values, and character we help our children build.
Let us celebrate with wisdom, dignity, and compassion.
– Adabara A. Abdulhadi writes from Okene, Kogi State.
